My Big Share Reflection

By Kurt Stapleton

This year, Chrysalis hosted its first-ever Big Share Storytelling event. We had people in the community, staff members, and people utilizing the services here share their stories of hope, healing, and wellness. The weeks leading up to this event were exciting, with a little stress, a little anxiety, and a lot of uncertainty. What was I going to share? How do I write a short story? Will anyone actually care about what I’m sharing? Will my story connect with anyone? There were so many questions that I had to just let them all go and DO IT. Just do it. 

From my point of view, it was therapeutic as I reached deep down into my bag of memories and pulled out one that was both painful and hopeful. Going back to that state of mind I was in and the place I was physically in brought back memories I had tucked away, for what I thought was forever. It was helpful for me to share this story with others as a way to show them a little more about me and what my lived experience looks like. It also helped me refocus on how I communicate with others and particularly, my family. “Have I kept up with this communication or have I fallen back into old habits?” Great questions to ask myself as I go throughout the day.

I heard that some of the storytellers are interested in doing more events like this and bringing their stories to more people to inspire and offer hope. Sharing their unique journey of recovery in their life can be a great way to spread awareness, and advocate for others’ needs. Potentially inspiring others to join this or another event, and share their own short story.